Okay, so I came across this blog post by The Ugly Volvo and oh my heck can I relate, so I just couldn’t help myself and had to share a few of my favourite parts.
Why You Should Never, Ever, Ever Get A Tattoo (but Having a Baby is Fine)
By theuglyvolvo, April 1, 2014
…Listed below are the reasons my mother has always given me for why I shouldn’t get a tattoo. And I understand that she’s from a different generation…I’m just saying that after having a child, I find it really hard to take any of them seriously.
1. “A Tattoo is Forever”
Yes, a tattoo is forever. Totally forever! Except that a tattoo can, if needed, be erased with a laser.
2. “People are going to judge you all the time.”
They absolutely will. You’re a terrible mother! …
3. “Having one will limit the type of jobs you can get.”
It will! Like jobs where you need time off to take care of your kids when they get sick! Or jobs where they’re only hiring guys because they feel like hiring women is a liability!
4. “A tattoo will ruin your body.”
It totally will, right? Also what will sort of ruin it is carrying another human inside your body for the better part of a year and then pushing it out an opening ten centimeters wide and then attempting to breastfeed it. Followed by the stress of trying to raise it to adulthood. Let me know if doing all that ruins your body any more or less than the butterfly on the small of your back.
5. “It’s going to be more expensive than you realize.”
It is SO expensive. There are tons of basic costs at the beginning but I can’t even explain how much it’s going to cost to put this tattoo through college.
6. “You don’t know if it’s going to be clean or safe. Also, you know it’s going to hurt, right?”
Luckily, having a kid can easily be summed up by the words “clean” and “safe.” Also, “painless.”
7. “I know you think you want one, but you probably haven’t thought this through all the way.”
No, I hadn’t.
8. “You’re excited about it right now, but how are you going to feel about it in 15 years?”
You’re right, I’m totally going to want to strangle it in fifteen years.
9. “Is it that you really want one? Because maybe you want one because it seems like everyone else has one.”
Judging from my Facebook newsfeed, yes, everyone does have one. Maybe part of why I wanted one was actually wanting one, and part of why I wanted one was peer pressure.
10. “You think you’re going to seem so cool walking around with one, but really most of the time you’re going to look sort of ridiculous.”
Sorry, I couldn’t hear that last one. I was screaming the phrase, “DON’T EAT THOSE BUGS,” while pulling pieces of sweet potato and banana out of my hair and coat pockets.